I have been pretty happy lately and there is a girl to thank for that. Obviously I was pretty down after my last break up, but I just lucked into meeting a friend of my sister in law a couple of months ago. She is working in real estate, selling these very nice seaside residences. Of course the problem is that we really do not have very nice beaches here in Singapore, but that is not that important since you are not really going to be competing against someone else who has a beach either. I met her at a wedding that they dragged me to, which is probably a great place to meet girls if you are serious about getting in a relationship. That was just a way to get my foot in the door, I talked to her for a long time and then I tried to get her phone number. That did not work.
Of course I needed to find a new place to live, so I went to see her on that account. There was not a real way that I could afford one of these places, but of course she knew what I was up to and I did not really try to conceal it. So she showed me the model condo and then she gave me her phone number and told me not to bother her at work again. So far things are going great, although a lot of guys might not think it was. She is not in a rush and she wants to make me put in the work, which does not bother me at all. That is how you have to roll when you are serious about a girl. The other way rarely works out in the long run if you think about it.